In a relationship communication is key. The problem is a lot of people communicate in different ways. I learned it’s important to figure that part out early.
My ex’s communication style was probably the worst one for me. She would bottle everything up and explode with a rant why she was unhappy for 10 to 20 minutes.
I need time to think about my responses. I do like to fix things. I think if we would have taken things one step at a time it would have made a big difference.
At least I learned for my next relationship/partnership, I’ll make sure that this issue will not destroy everything.